I’ve been married a year. I’ve lived in my cute little newly remodeled home for a year. And my heart hasn’t settled in yet. As I prepared for the transition, everyone gave me the typical warnings about how hard settling in to having a new roommate would be. I spent that time mentally and emotionally preparing myself to live with this man to whom I was about to commit my life. I came into marriage willing to be caught off guard, to struggle, to work through annoyances and diff